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		<title>By: retjenny</title>
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		<dc:creator>retjenny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 21:43:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Squirrely 
11/18/2009 at 7:42 am 
Adam&#039;s bastard album is on itunes and it has &#039;Want&#039;  as a bonus track, but it has &#039;December&#039;  which is &#039;Want&#039;  under a pseudonym in the track lasting.  &lt;/blockquote&gt;

I read one review on I-Tunes that sound like they thought it was the actual &quot;first album&quot;.  

I don&#039;t know what we can do about I Tunes but what other ways can we spread the word.?  I guess go to our local WalMart and do a little record moving (smiles mischievously)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Squirrely<br />
11/18/2009 at 7:42 am<br />
Adam&#8217;s bastard album is on itunes and it has &#8216;Want&#8217;  as a bonus track, but it has &#8216;December&#8217;  which is &#8216;Want&#8217;  under a pseudonym in the track lasting.  </p></blockquote>
<p>I read one review on I-Tunes that sound like they thought it was the actual &#8220;first album&#8221;.  </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know what we can do about I Tunes but what other ways can we spread the word.?  I guess go to our local WalMart and do a little record moving (smiles mischievously)</p>
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		<title>By: JazzRocks</title>
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		<dc:creator>JazzRocks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 20:45:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That Slezak article is great. Loved every word. And since everyone knows he&#039;s  an Allison/ Kris fan he can&#039;t be accused of being an Adamtard. Except for VV and Gawker it seems every other blog/article has been pro-Adam.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That Slezak article is great. Loved every word. And since everyone knows he&#8217;s  an Allison/ Kris fan he can&#8217;t be accused of being an Adamtard. Except for VV and Gawker it seems every other blog/article has been pro-Adam.</p>
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		<title>By: Ceddies</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ceddies</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 20:03:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Late commenting as usual, but I did want to weigh in with my thoughts.  

Adam is doing a great job in his own way.  Perez and Co. just need to leave him alone.  As we all know, Adam has almost a quarter million twitter followers--all of whom are aware of his being gay and being awesome.  Besides that quarter million, there are probably another quarter million who follow(and approve of) him in other ways besides twitter (tv, magazines, internet).  He is a perfect mouthpiece for the gay movement and is doing one heck of a job gaining understanding, acceptance, and promotion of their dilemma.  Perez and Co. just need to back up and let him do his thing by showing the unaccepting that the rest of the world doesn&#039;t have to fear.  His way seems to be working better than the old way.  &lt;strong&gt;Can the others say they have reached almost a half million people in a positive way in less than a year?&lt;/strong&gt;

To me, we all benefit by &quot;live and let live&quot;.  That&#039;s one of the best forms of equality.   Things (and people) have changed.  Slowly.  But &lt;strong&gt;Adam is on a fast track to bring about change&lt;/strong&gt;--just by being his fierce, gentle, talented self.  IMO, he has already knocked down huge walls.  His willingness to be so open has made others come to accept and want to know more about him, some of his friends, and their lifestyles.  I was already open minded, but I now kind of follow Ferras, Moldinari, Drake, (and sometimes Perez when the situation calls for that measure).  I have had several coworkers and a cousin in the G/L community.  They mean the world to me.  I think if we look around, most of us do have friends/family who are--although some have never felt comfortable enough to come out.  We know.  We respect them and love them.

Adam, just continue to be yourself!  You&#039;re doing splendidly!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Late commenting as usual, but I did want to weigh in with my thoughts.  </p>
<p>Adam is doing a great job in his own way.  Perez and Co. just need to leave him alone.  As we all know, Adam has almost a quarter million twitter followers&#8211;all of whom are aware of his being gay and being awesome.  Besides that quarter million, there are probably another quarter million who follow(and approve of) him in other ways besides twitter (tv, magazines, internet).  He is a perfect mouthpiece for the gay movement and is doing one heck of a job gaining understanding, acceptance, and promotion of their dilemma.  Perez and Co. just need to back up and let him do his thing by showing the unaccepting that the rest of the world doesn&#8217;t have to fear.  His way seems to be working better than the old way.  <strong>Can the others say they have reached almost a half million people in a positive way in less than a year?</strong></p>
<p>To me, we all benefit by &#8220;live and let live&#8221;.  That&#8217;s one of the best forms of equality.   Things (and people) have changed.  Slowly.  But <strong>Adam is on a fast track to bring about change</strong>&#8211;just by being his fierce, gentle, talented self.  IMO, he has already knocked down huge walls.  His willingness to be so open has made others come to accept and want to know more about him, some of his friends, and their lifestyles.  I was already open minded, but I now kind of follow Ferras, Moldinari, Drake, (and sometimes Perez when the situation calls for that measure).  I have had several coworkers and a cousin in the G/L community.  They mean the world to me.  I think if we look around, most of us do have friends/family who are&#8211;although some have never felt comfortable enough to come out.  We know.  We respect them and love them.</p>
<p>Adam, just continue to be yourself!  You&#8217;re doing splendidly!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: media bias</title>
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		<dc:creator>media bias</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 18:40:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The compelling thing to me is Hicklin&#039;s tweet mentioning the PR rep is gay. 

So he witheld that until last night, then drops it in a tweet calculated to boost his position. 

Where in reality it just makes him more of an asshole since now all three principles are gay, and Adam was nowhere involved but got bashed. 

So a catfight among three turn on one. Which is exactly what cats do btw. Attack someone not even in the fight once the frenzy is out of control. I learned it when my two cats attacked my dog for just sitting there curiously watching them fight it out. 

He&#039;s a fraud and most likely knows that publicist and there are many levels to the degree of &quot;revenge&quot;.

We all need to tweet him to OUT the publicist since he&#039;s gay and Hincklin is so devoted to gay people being so PUBLIC in their positions. 

Just to make a point.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The compelling thing to me is Hicklin&#8217;s tweet mentioning the PR rep is gay. </p>
<p>So he witheld that until last night, then drops it in a tweet calculated to boost his position. </p>
<p>Where in reality it just makes him more of an asshole since now all three principles are gay, and Adam was nowhere involved but got bashed. </p>
<p>So a catfight among three turn on one. Which is exactly what cats do btw. Attack someone not even in the fight once the frenzy is out of control. I learned it when my two cats attacked my dog for just sitting there curiously watching them fight it out. </p>
<p>He&#8217;s a fraud and most likely knows that publicist and there are many levels to the degree of &#8220;revenge&#8221;.</p>
<p>We all need to tweet him to OUT the publicist since he&#8217;s gay and Hincklin is so devoted to gay people being so PUBLIC in their positions. </p>
<p>Just to make a point.</p>
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		<title>By: Kanadie Bonttell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kanadie Bonttell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 18:16:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A Michael Slezack article on Out-Gate!

http://popwatch.ew.com/2009/11/18/adam-lambert-out-magazine-controversy/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A Michael Slezack article on Out-Gate!</p>
<p><a href="http://popwatch.ew.com/2009/11/18/adam-lambert-out-magazine-controversy/" rel="nofollow">http://popwatch.ew.com/2009/11/18/adam-lambert-out-magazine-controversy/</a></p>
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		<title>By: Kanadie Bonttell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kanadie Bonttell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 18:01:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Something about this guy Aaron Hicklin that really bothers me..another tweet from him...what is saying here, why even bother? Seems like he is still trying to stir the shit!

@aaronhicklin
Long before there was Glambert there was Will Young, the UK&#039;s Idol winner of 2002  http://www.out.com/out100/nominees_22.asp
about 1 hour ago from web</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Something about this guy Aaron Hicklin that really bothers me..another tweet from him&#8230;what is saying here, why even bother? Seems like he is still trying to stir the shit!</p>
<p>@aaronhicklin<br />
Long before there was Glambert there was Will Young, the UK&#8217;s Idol winner of 2002  <a href="http://www.out.com/out100/nominees_22.asp" rel="nofollow">http://www.out.com/out100/nominees_22.asp</a><br />
about 1 hour ago from web</p>
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		<title>By: oceana</title>
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		<dc:creator>oceana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 17:18:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kudos to HP, great satire there.</description>
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		<title>By: 4evrmomof4</title>
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		<dc:creator>4evrmomof4</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 15:39:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>so excited that he was named in the top 16 sexiest-- we all think he is, but maybe we should let OUT know, so they can complain some more cause a primarily hetero mag put in Adam in their sexiest issue- sexy is sexy!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>so excited that he was named in the top 16 sexiest&#8211; we all think he is, but maybe we should let OUT know, so they can complain some more cause a primarily hetero mag put in Adam in their sexiest issue- sexy is sexy!</p>
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		<title>By: Bowie1</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bowie1</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 15:27:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good morning all!

Huffington Post..Joel Vogel.....&lt;strong&gt;I love this guy!&lt;/strong&gt;  He gets it!!!</description>
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<p>Huffington Post..Joel Vogel&#8230;..<strong>I love this guy!</strong>  He gets it!!!</p>
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		<title>By: LaurelG</title>
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		<dc:creator>LaurelG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 15:19:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That Huffington Post article is GENIUS.  I particularly love the way it hits so many of the key issues like - trying to put someone into a box and viewing the gay community as one monolithic entity.  And the &quot;kitten&quot; dig?  Ha.  Glad he snuck that in, because Hicklin really had a sneer in his voice when he rapped Adam&#039;s knuckles about saying women are pretty.  What?  He can&#039;t say women are pretty?  

As far as I&#039;m concerned, the HP has had the last word on the subject.  From now on when I read someone trying to defend Hicklin or criticize Adam, in my head I&#039;ll be thinking:  your argument is invalid!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That Huffington Post article is GENIUS.  I particularly love the way it hits so many of the key issues like &#8211; trying to put someone into a box and viewing the gay community as one monolithic entity.  And the &#8220;kitten&#8221; dig?  Ha.  Glad he snuck that in, because Hicklin really had a sneer in his voice when he rapped Adam&#8217;s knuckles about saying women are pretty.  What?  He can&#8217;t say women are pretty?  </p>
<p>As far as I&#8217;m concerned, the HP has had the last word on the subject.  From now on when I read someone trying to defend Hicklin or criticize Adam, in my head I&#8217;ll be thinking:  your argument is invalid!</p>
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		<title>By: tiger92</title>
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		<dc:creator>tiger92</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 15:16:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>http://www.people.com/people/package/0,,20315920,00.html
I guess gay IS sexy!

I think, after all this-&quot;Out&quot; wasn&#039;t standing up for anything. I like how the huffington post put it:

4. In the future, please make an LGBT magazine your first choice of appearance. Scrap that. In the future, please make Out--the highest circulated gay magazine in the United States, available at stores everywhere--your first magazine of choice. We hear you sell a lot of magazines and we want in--&lt;strong&gt;for gay rights, of course&lt;/strong&gt;!

and this: 

9. If you forget everything else, remember that as a gay man you must convey your gayness unequivocally, at all times, &lt;strong&gt;and on the &quot;gay community&#039;s&quot; terms&lt;/strong&gt;. In the future, we will be watching to ensure your compliance (&lt;strong&gt;and maintain a blog for your discretions)&lt;/strong&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.people.com/people/package/0,,20315920,00.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.people.com/people/package/0,,20315920,00.html</a><br />
I guess gay IS sexy!</p>
<p>I think, after all this-&#8221;Out&#8221; wasn&#8217;t standing up for anything. I like how the huffington post put it:</p>
<p>4. In the future, please make an LGBT magazine your first choice of appearance. Scrap that. In the future, please make Out&#8211;the highest circulated gay magazine in the United States, available at stores everywhere&#8211;your first magazine of choice. We hear you sell a lot of magazines and we want in&#8211;<strong>for gay rights, of course</strong>!</p>
<p>and this: </p>
<p>9. If you forget everything else, remember that as a gay man you must convey your gayness unequivocally, at all times, <strong>and on the &#8220;gay community&#8217;s&#8221; terms</strong>. In the future, we will be watching to ensure your compliance (<strong>and maintain a blog for your discretions)</strong></p>
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		<title>By: mmb</title>
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		<dc:creator>mmb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 15:10:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Did someone already post that Adam made People Sexiest Men Alive issue?  they have his pic on the people website (1 of 16 on the website -- Daughtry there too!)  Progress!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Did someone already post that Adam made People Sexiest Men Alive issue?  they have his pic on the people website (1 of 16 on the website &#8212; Daughtry there too!)  Progress!</p>
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		<title>By: PattyH</title>
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		<dc:creator>PattyH</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 14:51:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My favorite part of The Huffington Post. Laughing out loud for real!

&lt;blockquote&gt;8. In addition, while the glam vibe of your album might make your &quot;gayness&quot; implicit, we suggest a few adjustments to song titles that will make clearer whose side you&#039;re really on: &quot;Strut (Like a Gay Man)&quot;, &quot;(Gays are) Sure Fire Winners,&quot; and &quot;Whataya Want From Me (Okay, I&#039;ll be the Gay Messiah).&quot; &lt;/blockquote&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My favorite part of The Huffington Post. Laughing out loud for real!</p>
<blockquote><p>8. In addition, while the glam vibe of your album might make your &#8220;gayness&#8221; implicit, we suggest a few adjustments to song titles that will make clearer whose side you&#8217;re really on: &#8220;Strut (Like a Gay Man)&#8221;, &#8220;(Gays are) Sure Fire Winners,&#8221; and &#8220;Whataya Want From Me (Okay, I&#8217;ll be the Gay Messiah).&#8221; </p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: becausehelives</title>
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		<dc:creator>becausehelives</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 14:44:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;@mogulmama I love Adam, too, just don&#039;t like a gay publicist of a gay artist telling a gay editor not to make his client &#039;too gay.&#039;  unfair?

I had a feeling from the beginning that this entire affair could have been a pissing match/feud between Aaron and Roger. Honestly, I think Aaron is steamed that Roger has not given him &#039;special&#039; attention and access to Adam.

This probably has NOTHING to do with Adam at all. Sad.
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
Hold up Roger is GAY?. does this not make some difference?. i thought the OUT guy meant some straight publicist who didn&#039;t know the struggles of gay people. Roger must have experienced discrimination and hate in his lifetime to take such matters lightly. so yeah i totally agree with u here that this whole thing cld be abt something else.

also people really want Adam to pick a fight with his mgt NOW? the album is not even out yet.and  even when maybe he is satisfied with them. I mean Kelly can do it on every album and get away with it but I doubt Adam is that kind of person. He strikes me as someone who will tell them to their face if he had a problem not go to press like others.

meanwhile i had a good laugh this morning.. that huffington article was just the best. the message i got is stop trying to tell people (stars) how to live their lives, or respond to attacks, or behave cos you don&#039;t and never will know them personally. so Rock on Adam.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>@mogulmama I love Adam, too, just don&#8217;t like a gay publicist of a gay artist telling a gay editor not to make his client &#8216;too gay.&#8217;  unfair?</p>
<p>I had a feeling from the beginning that this entire affair could have been a pissing match/feud between Aaron and Roger. Honestly, I think Aaron is steamed that Roger has not given him &#8217;special&#8217; attention and access to Adam.</p>
<p>This probably has NOTHING to do with Adam at all. Sad.
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<p>Hold up Roger is GAY?. does this not make some difference?. i thought the OUT guy meant some straight publicist who didn&#8217;t know the struggles of gay people. Roger must have experienced discrimination and hate in his lifetime to take such matters lightly. so yeah i totally agree with u here that this whole thing cld be abt something else.</p>
<p>also people really want Adam to pick a fight with his mgt NOW? the album is not even out yet.and  even when maybe he is satisfied with them. I mean Kelly can do it on every album and get away with it but I doubt Adam is that kind of person. He strikes me as someone who will tell them to their face if he had a problem not go to press like others.</p>
<p>meanwhile i had a good laugh this morning.. that huffington article was just the best. the message i got is stop trying to tell people (stars) how to live their lives, or respond to attacks, or behave cos you don&#8217;t and never will know them personally. so Rock on Adam.</p>
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		<title>By: unique28v</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 14:43:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really like these parts of the huffington post article&quot;

&lt;em&gt;After reading Aaron Hickler&#039;s open letter, I felt compelled to summarize and add a few more of my own suggestions on how you might further prove your &#039;gayness&#039;  to the &#039;gay community&#039;  (the gay community, of course, being defined as a monolithic entity of one heart and one mind).

5. Please re-consider your gay-hating handlers, particularly 19 Records. They clearly have too much control over your creative choices. Could that album cover have been any more straight and predictable?

10. And finally, as a &#039;gay pioneer,&#039;  remember that we are &#039;all counting on you not to mess this up.&#039;  No pressure. Gay salvation depends on your career path. As the gay pop culture prophet Perez Hilton warns, you can either be a cog for the mainstream music machine or the gay community. There are no other options. You cannot be complex, you cannot be both masculine and feminine, you cannot resist labels or boxes, you cannot experiment, you cannot form your own identity, you cannot just be. You must always match stereotypes, meet expectations. Of course, if you do slip up and need to come out again as a gay man, Out Magazine would be happy to provide the platform. &lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really like these parts of the huffington post article&#8221;</p>
<p><em>After reading Aaron Hickler&#8217;s open letter, I felt compelled to summarize and add a few more of my own suggestions on how you might further prove your &#8216;gayness&#8217;  to the &#8216;gay community&#8217;  (the gay community, of course, being defined as a monolithic entity of one heart and one mind).</p>
<p>5. Please re-consider your gay-hating handlers, particularly 19 Records. They clearly have too much control over your creative choices. Could that album cover have been any more straight and predictable?</p>
<p>10. And finally, as a &#8216;gay pioneer,&#8217;  remember that we are &#8216;all counting on you not to mess this up.&#8217;  No pressure. Gay salvation depends on your career path. As the gay pop culture prophet Perez Hilton warns, you can either be a cog for the mainstream music machine or the gay community. There are no other options. You cannot be complex, you cannot be both masculine and feminine, you cannot resist labels or boxes, you cannot experiment, you cannot form your own identity, you cannot just be. You must always match stereotypes, meet expectations. Of course, if you do slip up and need to come out again as a gay man, Out Magazine would be happy to provide the platform. </em></p>
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		<title>By: unique28v</title>
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		<dc:creator>unique28v</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 14:42:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I &lt;strong&gt;LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE&lt;/strong&gt; that Huffington Post article!! lol Its funny and true.  

I really think OUT misplayed their hand on this one. People (gay and straight) can see their hidden agenda.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I <strong>LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE</strong> that Huffington Post article!! lol Its funny and true.  </p>
<p>I really think OUT misplayed their hand on this one. People (gay and straight) can see their hidden agenda.</p>
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		<title>By: mahrikka</title>
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		<dc:creator>mahrikka</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 14:32:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I began to comment several times last night and deleted.  It turned out to be for the best because the Huffington Post article is pure brilliance!  Humor gets the point across much better!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I began to comment several times last night and deleted.  It turned out to be for the best because the Huffington Post article is pure brilliance!  Humor gets the point across much better!</p>
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		<title>By: tiger92</title>
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		<dc:creator>tiger92</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 14:27:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The Huffington Post article was perfect! From the article: (for those of you at work)

&lt;em&gt;edit: link please, do not post entire articles&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Huffington Post article was perfect! From the article: (for those of you at work)</p>
<p><em>edit: link please, do not post entire articles</em></p>
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		<title>By: mayang</title>
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		<dc:creator>mayang</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 14:18:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>despite of being gay, adam was one of the sexiest men alive by people magazine! check it out...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>despite of being gay, adam was one of the sexiest men alive by people magazine! check it out&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Kate8</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kate8</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 13:28:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have never really been overly impressed with some of the vibes that I am getting of how AI and 19 treat their contestants who are gay. I hope Adam doesn&#039;t have to make too many personnal sacrifices to have a career,but it is his call what is too much for him. I am continuing to be a bit frustrated with his lack of radio play for FYE and TFM. The radio definitely can&#039;t be offended by TFM&#039;s lyrics, so what is the excuse for that song. I think by being openly gay Adam is doing enough for the gay community IMO. Like anyone else Adam needs to put himself first to a degree, the mainstream audience already appears to have some issues with him. He is not going to please everybody and needs to be careful that he doesn&#039;t try too. I am really hoping this talented young hardworking man is successful without making too many personnal sacrifices.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have never really been overly impressed with some of the vibes that I am getting of how AI and 19 treat their contestants who are gay. I hope Adam doesn&#8217;t have to make too many personnal sacrifices to have a career,but it is his call what is too much for him. I am continuing to be a bit frustrated with his lack of radio play for FYE and TFM. The radio definitely can&#8217;t be offended by TFM&#8217;s lyrics, so what is the excuse for that song. I think by being openly gay Adam is doing enough for the gay community IMO. Like anyone else Adam needs to put himself first to a degree, the mainstream audience already appears to have some issues with him. He is not going to please everybody and needs to be careful that he doesn&#8217;t try too. I am really hoping this talented young hardworking man is successful without making too many personnal sacrifices.</p>
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		<title>By: abbysee</title>
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		<dc:creator>abbysee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 13:22:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Huffington Post gets it!  Yay!</description>
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		<title>By: Squirrely</title>
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		<dc:creator>Squirrely</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 12:42:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Adam&#039;s bastard album is on itunes and it has &quot;Want&quot; as a bonus track, but it has &quot;December&quot; which is &quot;Want&quot; under a pseudonym in the track lasting.  :roll:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adam&#8217;s bastard album is on itunes and it has &#8220;Want&#8221; as a bonus track, but it has &#8220;December&#8221; which is &#8220;Want&#8221; under a pseudonym in the track lasting.  <img src='http://3888.voxcdn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_rolleyes.gif' alt=':roll:' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: bridgeymah</title>
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		<dc:creator>bridgeymah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 11:51:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>While I think the article is great, I think the photography is kind of naff.
Just imagine the amazing things Annie Lebovitz would shoot (Vanity Fair) - so sad the great Herb Ritts isn&#039;t with us anymore, oh the photos he would have taken of Adam...

And with that I am outta here. Time for bed downunder. Later peeps.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While I think the article is great, I think the photography is kind of naff.<br />
Just imagine the amazing things Annie Lebovitz would shoot (Vanity Fair) &#8211; so sad the great Herb Ritts isn&#8217;t with us anymore, oh the photos he would have taken of Adam&#8230;</p>
<p>And with that I am outta here. Time for bed downunder. Later peeps.</p>
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		<title>By: adamized</title>
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		<dc:creator>adamized</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 11:47:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello everyone.  It has taken me awhile to get up the courage to post but here goes.  I have been a MJ&#039;s addict since my obession with Adam started.  Knowing that there are so many other seemingly smart and sane folks feeling the same way I do has helped.  Can&#039;t seem to convince any of my friends or family that Adam is one in a million.  

I loved the Huffington Post article.  Funny yet to the point!  Hopefully it made Adam feel better since he always seems to use humor to get beyond ignorance.  Knowing that we all support him and think his approach makes perfect sense should help as well.

Thank you all for keeping me company on this wonderful ride.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello everyone.  It has taken me awhile to get up the courage to post but here goes.  I have been a MJ&#8217;s addict since my obession with Adam started.  Knowing that there are so many other seemingly smart and sane folks feeling the same way I do has helped.  Can&#8217;t seem to convince any of my friends or family that Adam is one in a million.  </p>
<p>I loved the Huffington Post article.  Funny yet to the point!  Hopefully it made Adam feel better since he always seems to use humor to get beyond ignorance.  Knowing that we all support him and think his approach makes perfect sense should help as well.</p>
<p>Thank you all for keeping me company on this wonderful ride.</p>
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		<title>By: Squirrely</title>
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		<dc:creator>Squirrely</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 11:44:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>from Nia Vardalos

@adamlambert Like me, you are cheered on by optimists, and an easy target for the disenchanted. xo from Nia</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>from Nia Vardalos</p>
<p>@adamlambert Like me, you are cheered on by optimists, and an easy target for the disenchanted. xo from Nia</p>
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		<title>By: justjude</title>
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		<dc:creator>justjude</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 11:41:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OMPG, The Huffington Post!! 

Priceless!....... and that would be funny. In fact just F***k&#039;n wonderful bit 
of pure pleasure. LOL</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OMPG, The Huffington Post!! </p>
<p>Priceless!&#8230;&#8230;. and that would be funny. In fact just F***k&#8217;n wonderful bit<br />
of pure pleasure. LOL</p>
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		<title>By: dyg1</title>
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		<dc:creator>dyg1</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 11:36:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Huffington Post weighs in and puts the whole thing into hilarious perspective:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/joe-vogel/an-open-letter-to-adam-la_b_361733.html

even Adam agrees &#039;@adamlambert hilarious: http://www.huffingtonpost.c&#039; ¦&#039;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Thanks bridgeymah. This is hilarious, but it put in real perspective what the stupid Hicklin obtained with his letter. Not really what he was trying to get. He should be hidding behind a rock now or maybe just go jump in a lake.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Huffington Post weighs in and puts the whole thing into hilarious perspective:<br />
<a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/joe-vogel/an-open-letter-to-adam-la_b_361733.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.huffingtonpost.com/joe-vogel/an-open-letter-to-adam-la_b_361733.html</a></p>
<p>even Adam agrees &#8216;@adamlambert hilarious: <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.c" rel="nofollow">http://www.huffingtonpost.c</a>&#8216; ¦&#8217;</p></blockquote>
<p>Thanks bridgeymah. This is hilarious, but it put in real perspective what the stupid Hicklin obtained with his letter. Not really what he was trying to get. He should be hidding behind a rock now or maybe just go jump in a lake.</p>
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		<title>By: bridgeymah</title>
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		<dc:creator>bridgeymah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 11:31:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>From marketing guru Seth Godin today:

&quot;The reason they want you to fit in...is that once you do, then they can ignore you.&quot;

just seemed quite appropriate given recent events...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From marketing guru Seth Godin today:</p>
<p>&#8220;The reason they want you to fit in&#8230;is that once you do, then they can ignore you.&#8221;</p>
<p>just seemed quite appropriate given recent events&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Squirrely</title>
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		<dc:creator>Squirrely</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 11:28:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;http://www.huffingtonpost.com/joe-vogel/an-open-letter-to-adam-la_b_361733.html&lt;/blockquote&gt;

I wonder if Perez will post this?  This was too funny, I loved it.</description>
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<p>I wonder if Perez will post this?  This was too funny, I loved it.</p>
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		<title>By: bridgeymah</title>
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		<dc:creator>bridgeymah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 11:22:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Two cds won&#039;t do anything, but it made me feel better!&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Aww thanks for kind words and I think 2 cds is great and if every hardcore Adam fan does that it will make a pretty big difference. Not saying they should, just saying it all adds up if they do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Two cds won&#8217;t do anything, but it made me feel better!</p></blockquote>
<p>Aww thanks for kind words and I think 2 cds is great and if every hardcore Adam fan does that it will make a pretty big difference. Not saying they should, just saying it all adds up if they do.</p>
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